Spring Happenings…

Well, it’s been a while since I’ve written anything here & that’s mainly because we have all had a lot going on! You’d think I would learn to post short, simple stories as an event comes to an end, but here I am, playing “catch-up” once more… Ah, well, it’s like I always say, “better late than never”, right? 😉

Now, the only thing left is to figure out what approach to write this in, chronological, or by person, or some other way… The way I’ve written the topics on my iPhone is just a list of possible titles for separate stories, but that doesn’t give any detail. Hmmm… let me just back up a bit, because the first couple of events actually occured more toward the beginning of the year.

First of all, Jeremy & I are looking forward to our 10th wedding anniversary this fall, which means it has actually been more than 10 years now, since he proposed to me. We became engaged on February 14, 1999. So, this past Valentine’s Day marked a decade since he asked me to start this journey of familyhood: first, ecstatically becoming his wife & later to be blessed to share the responsibilities of parenthood to the 2 wonderful daughters we’ve been given. It’s had all its upturns & downswings over the years, but has always been a wonderful experience of growth & love & I appreciate him more every day, though I oftentimes forget how to express it…

Getting back to the girls, they have each had their share of learning in the past few months. Katrina began clogging lessons & graduated from a 6-week course in March! She continues to dance with her Nana & I in weekly classes & just loves this new hobby! It’s nice, because we can practice together at home & it gives us some special “Mom-and-Daughter” time, too.

Alyssa began potty training around the same time, and although she has been kind of “hit-and-miss” recently, she has had some definite success & progress in that area. We know that it will “click” one day & she will be more consistant. For now, we’re happy she enjoys sitting there & isn’t apprehensive at all…

Seems like Aly’s the only one of us who isn’t bothered by the changing of seasons, yet, anyway. I have always had “hay fever”; was diagnosed with it as a kid & have had to deal with my sinuses acting up almost every year, since. It seems to effect Jeremy in the way that his eyes & nose get bothered, too, although he’s never been diagnosed as an allergy sufferer. Same thing with Katrina, but to a lesser extent. Thankfully, it’s officially spring, now — no more drastic temperature changes from day to day, as is typical for our locale when the seasons begin to change.

Katrina’s Spring Break from school was a fun, event-filled one this year! We seemed to be going out & doing something different, nearly every day of it! First, there was the Tulsa Home & Garden show. We went there trying to get ideas for things we’d like to have in our new home, but didn’t find anything we couldn’t live without. The next day, we went to Philbrook Museum of Art, where Katrina got to create her own craft project, which looked like a little leprechaun, when she was done. We all enjoyed the scavenger hunt of the grounds, while Alyssa pointed out the “fwowders” (flowers), all along the way. Sunday’s plans included church service & our Bible study group, then we had a couple of “resting days”, although Kat made sure that we all wore green on St. Patrick’s Day & she helped me with the grocery shopping, too. The next day, we went to the Oklahoma City zoo & a mall that we enjoy there, afterwards. Nice day trip; we’ll have to share the pictures in the photo album, later. The next evening, Katrina & I had clogging class. Sometime that weekend, she & Jeremy went roller skating together, then Sunday’s plans were the same as the previous week. It was 10 days of enjoyment, having our big girl home from school. We’re looking forward to her summer vacation, now, too!

Kat also had to deal with a couple of not-so-fun things, but thankfully, she’s a little trooper & they didn’t bother her much at all… One was her last appointment with her eye doctor, where we found out that her vision in her “bad eye” has not progressed at all, so he had us begin again with the patch therapy. She wears an eyepatch over her “good eye” part of the day, to help the other one focus/get stronger. Since we’ve been told only to have her do this for 4 hours each day, we let her do it in the evenings, from the time she gets home from school until about bedtime each night. That way, not only will she not be questioned about it by her peers (or worse, possibly made fun of), but we can also monitor her more easily & make sure she’s keeping it on & not trying to “peek” over or around it, either. She’s very good about wearing it, though. We’re hoping & praying to have good results at her next eye exam. A couple of other appointments she had to attend dealt with her teeth. She had 2 loose, baby ones that just didn’t want to come out. The adult ones were growing in behind them, instead of under them, so they weren’t helping to naturally push them out, either. A dental appointment, one with an orthodontist & a meeting with an oral surgeon all confirmed we would need to have the 2 baby teeth pulled, in order for her grown-up ones to finally come in properly. She had the operation on April 6th & did wonderfully! She wasn’t apprehensive at all. They told her what to expect, on her own terms & the oral surgeon also ordered her not to eat anything until after it was over, but then she was supposed to have ice cream for breakfast! We obliged & she ate an entire banana split, all by herself! I think this made it a little easier for her to deal with… 😉 She also got some nice stuff from the tooth fairy the next day & was able to go back to school & tell her friends all about it. Now, her adult teeth are in place & you can’t even tell she had any problems with those baby ones, to begin with! She’s getting so big!

One way that Alyssa continues to grow & progress is in her vocabulary. She seems to just add words by the minute! Even though she still talks like a toddler, you can understand her a lot more, now too… A cute thing she likes to play with us is “knock-knock jokes”. Katrina started this, when she was a bit younger, herself. I think she actually taught her sister to say, “Knock-knock!” and wait for a reply. Then, when we say “Who’s there?”, Kat will typically say, “Katrina.” Then, of course comes, “Katrina who?”, to which she’d happily state, “Katrina Zongker”! And, that would be the funniest thing ever! Now, Aly’s spin on this is that, she likes to say her own name, but she can’t quite pronounce our last one, just yet, plus, she likes to go by her nickname, rather than saying, “Alyssa”, so her punchline is always, “Aly Oscar”! Good stuff! We’re working with her on it, but right now, we can’t help but giggle, anyway…

A recent event I attended, right before my Birthday was a clogging workshop in Independence, MO called the “City Slicker Stomp”. It was all under one roof — the hotel we stayed at had a convention center in the lower floor, plus a restaurant, “convenience store”, etc. Little did we know what a good thing that was, until we got there! There were 10 of us from my group, including my Mom-in-Law, Annette, who was my roomie for the weekend, as well. We carpooled up & back in 2 vehicles & when we got there on Friday evening, attended the “fun dance” — just a bunch of cloggers, learning some simple routines together, for fun. Plus, my group got to perform a routine that was written by the workshop coordinator, herself! The next day, we each attended whichever class in the workshop appealed to us, at any given time. Around lunchtime, it began to snow & it didn’t stop until sometime late that evening. We were glad we had decided to stay until Sunday morning, even though the workshop ended Saturday night. This goes to show the kind of difference in temperature we experience in my region — by the time we left on Sunday, all the snow had practically melted off! The streets were not slick, nor did they cause any problems for us getting home, at all! It was a fun time, even though I missed Jeremy & the girls. They got to play in the snow on Saturday & even built a small snowman, but he was all gone by the time I got back. Oh, well, I got to see him on the camcorder, at least! 🙂

The next weekend, the 4 of us went & visited a local wildlife sanctuary called “Safari’s”. They are mostly known for the fact that they have big cats — lions, tigers, cougars, etc. Even a liger (yes, those of you who are Napoleon Dynamite fans, it’s true)! The other cool thing is that, since the cages are double-enforced, the tour guides let you feed the big cats raw chicken (off of a 10-foot pole, that you stick into a hole in the chain-link), for a small fee. Jeremy & I had been there before, but this was the girls’ first time. Katrina got to feed some of them, with her Dad & I’s help, but Alyssa was content just to watch from the stroller. This was another place that was a good “photo-op”, but lo & behold, when we got there, our camera battery had died. We took some pictures with my phone, but I don’t think they do it much justice…

Now, winding up with more current events, Easter, Katrina’s Birthday & Mother’s Day were all nice ones for us this year. We especially got some great pictures of the girls in their coordinating dresses on Easter! I know, here I am, promising all these pictures & not delivering… yet. It’s mostly due to time constraints & me not posting things on here, as they occur, which I will try to be better about, but you know, life, it kinda’ just happens & we’re happy to share the memories, whenever we can…

I will share one photo that I recently pulled off of my phone, because as all these other events have been going on, our new home has also been under construction. We used to visit it once a week, on Sundays, but because it is getting closer to completion, we’ve found that the crew has been locking it up when they leave. So, we try to make it on a Friday, while there’s someone still there working, and we can just go in & out. The exterior was recently painted (a little over a week ago) & we were excited to drive up & get that pleasant surprise. I hope everyone else is enjoying spring as much as we are, so far! Soon, all the kids will be out of school & the weather will turn even more warm. We will be moving & settling into this new place! Can’t wait!

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Photosynth of Our New House

The sheet rock is about to go on our new house, but before it does I wanted to get a series of photos of the house without the sheet rock so I’d know exactly where every pipe, wire and 2×4 is after we move in. It could come in handy.

I took pictures of the whole house, but they’re not really organized very well.  I remembered after I got home about Photosynth.  It’s a web app from Microsoft that lets you recreate a 3d scene from a series of photographs.  I uploaded photos from the living room and game room to create a Photosynth.  You can view it by clicking the image below.

Photosynth

You start out in the game room.  There are complete 360 views of the living and game room and you can walk between them.  It’s a really cool app, but it’s kind of hard to get use to navigating.   Here’s a few tips to help you get around.

1. Put it in full screen mode so you can see what you’re doing.

2. It’ll only let you spin around so far from the image your currently viewing.  To move further in one direction, click on another image and you can keep going.

3. It’s easy to get stuck.  If this happens, use the arrows to navigate or look down and the floor or ceiling to keep moving.

4. You can use your mouse wheel to zoom in.  A LOT!

5. It’s easier to walk backwards from the game room to the living room.

Redneck Engineering

I didn’t get much done with the home repairs this week.  There has been a single project that consumed the majority of my time.  When we moved in there was a good size bird feeder in the back yard.  During the ice storms last winter a tree limb fell on it and snapped it in half, leaving a broken 4×4 sticking out of the ground and a cement base.

There is also cable box in our backyard behind a bush and I wanted to just move this cement platform 15 feet or so to be next to it.  There are already smaller stepping stones leading to it, so it would have looked ok there and stopped grass and weeds from growing up around the cable box.  Now I knew this thing would be heavy, but I wasn’t sure how heavy.  My plan was to dig up around it, use a shovel to tip it on it’s side, roll it over to the cable box and cut off the 4×4 sticking out of it.  Figured it would take an hour or so.

After digging up the dirt around it, I discovered it was a lot thicker than I expected.  I thought it was about a 1″ thick prefabricated disk.  Turned out it’s poured concrete, 5″ thick.  I tried to pry it up with the shovel anyways but it was clear the shovel was going to loose that battle.

I had to come up with another plan now, so I got to wondering, “Exactly how heavy is this thing?”  I first looked up how much concrete weighs and it varies base on the mix, but it’s roughly 2,700 lbs per cubic yard.  There are 27 cubic feet in a cubic yard, so about 100 lbs per cubic foot.

I went outside and measured it.  It’s 5″ thick and has a 5′ diameter. I had to look up the formula for calculating square feet in a circle.  It’s:

A=(Pi)r^2
A=(3.14)2.5^2
A=(3.14)6.25
A=19.63 square feet.

Then multiple that by 5/12 of a foot for the thickness and I came up with 8.18 cubic feet.  So this sucker is about 818 lbs.  Seems a little overkill for holding up a bird feeder if you ask me..   Anyways, at this point I’m thinking forget it, I’ll just break it up and throw it away.  But.. I’m guessing that’s not quite as easy as it sounds either and I doubt the garbage man was going to take 800 lbs of concrete.

I wasn’t ready to give up yet.  I figured I just need to tip this thing on it’s side and I can probably roll it from there.  High school physics, don’t fail me now! 🙂  I tried a lever already and that didn’t work out too well.  I didn’t have anything tougher than the shovel to try again with.  I thought about a car jack, but I couldn’t get it under the block to start with and I figured it would just sink in to the mud.  The only other two options I could remember were a pulley and an Archimedes’ screw.  It didn’t look like Archimedes was going to be any help so I figured a pulley was my last hope.  I didn’t have anything over this block to hang a pulley from, but there was a tree to the side of it, so I figured I could turn the whole thing sideways and use a pulley to get this block tipped onto it’s side.  I went down to Wal-Mart to go pulley shopping.

Once I got there I quickly discovered the best pulleys and ropes money can buy (at Wal-Mart) were only rated up to 500-600 pounds.  There went that option.  I found a towing chain rated up to 5,000 pounds though so I grabbed it and it gave me the idea to head over to automotive to see if they had any better options there.  I found a winch! Perfect! Only $30 too!  It’s really designed for pulling your boat onto a trailer, but I’ll make due.  It was rated to 1500 lbs, so I found some hooks that were also rated for that so I could attach the winch to the chain and wrap the chain around the tree.  The plan was coming together.

I went home and got the whole contraption set up and started cranking.  Everything I had was rated for 1,500 lbs or more which should be more than enough, but it dawned on me, I’m not really sure what the tree I was hooking this all up to was rated for.  I was somewhat concerned about bringing the rest of the tree down on top of me, but figured the 4″ thick wood post should break before the foot thick tree did.

Even with the winch it was proving to be quite difficult to crank and the belt started showing some signs of wear.  A crank or two later, the fastener that was holding the whole thing together broke.  The threads stripped free and it bent itself open, more accurately.  I started questioning exactly how much this concrete pad really weighed again.  I also started having serious doubts that I would be able to roll this thing even if I did get it on it’s side.

Frustrated and tired, I thought to myself “You know what would look good there?  A bird bath!”.  I somehow managed to get Jeanette to go along and we spent the remainder of the week looking for a normal concrete or stone looking bird bath.  Apparently bright red and blue ceramic is the style now and that’s all stores carry.  We tried Garden Ridge, Hobby Lobby, Home Depot, Wal-Mart, Old Time Pottery and Atwoods and none of them had normal bird baths.  We finally found one at Lowes.

I sawed off the wood post to be even with the concrete base and put the bird bath out there.  I added some concreate glue to keep the dog from knocking it over on herself.  Finally that project is done!  Although, I may plant some flowers around the base.  After feeling how heavy that bird bath was, I’m really glad I didn’t get any further in my attempts to move the base.

Interview with Katrina

A buddy of mine, Shane interviewed his kids and posted it on Facebook today.  I thought it was a great idea so I decided to do the same with Katrina.  Here are her answers.

1. What jobs would you like to have when you grow up?
“An art teacher because it’s easy and I like crafts”
“Build houses.  I’ve never tried it before and I’d like to try it and find out what it’s like”
“Paint houses because it’s almost like art”
“I want to own a restaurant”

2. What kind of restaurant would you own?
“The Funny O’Fridays” – “It’s only open on Fridays and it’s a lot of fun”
“Gummy’s” – “Would have gum for desert”

3. What is your favorite game?
“I like Checkers, Dominos and CandyLand.  I like CandyLand because you get a castle of candy for winning”

4. What is your favorite subject in school?
“I like art because I like crafts a lot”
“I like math too”

5. What is your least favorite subject in school?
“I can’t decide. I like them all.”

6. What is your favorite toy?
“Squeaky the Mouse”

7. What hobbies do you have?
“Clogging, playing, watching tv and eating snacks”

8. What is your favorite part about clogging?
“Starting to dance”

9. What is dad’s job?
“Taking care of kids”

10. What does dad do to make money?
“Go to the store and get change back”

11. What is mom’s job?
“Help teaching me to clog”

12. What does mom do to make money?
“Now this is a tough one…”
“Do they give you money when you go to the bank?”

13. What is your favorite book?
“If You Take a Mouse to the Movies”

14. Why is that your favorite book?
“It reminds me of Squeaky”

15. What is the hardest thing you’ve ever done?
“Make something stick out” (a paper spring on a pop-up card)

16. Who is the president of the United States?
“Barack Obama” (I’m surprised she knew this)

17. What’s your favorite song?
“It’s a big big house” (“Big House” – Audio Adrenaline)

18. What’s your favorite place you’ve been to?
“The train in Washington DC”

19. Do you want to get married when you grow up?
“Umm..  Maybe”

20. What do you want your husband to be like?
“Knows how to play a guitar”
“Be a little skinny”
“Have great hair”
“Brushes his teeth everyday.   I don’t want someone who doesn’t brush their teeth!”

21. What pets do you want to have when you’re grown up?
“Mice, birds, turtles, frogs, fish and butterflies”

22. What nicknames do you have?
“Kat”
“Katrina Beana”

23. What talents do you have?
“Singing”
“Crafts.  I know I’m good at crafts because every time you see one you say its really good”

24. What are you not good at?
“Things I just learned”

25. If you had $1 million, what would you buy?
“A rocket ship so I could go to the moon”
“A bird bath because I like birds” (We just bought a bird bath earlier today.  She later explained this was an indoor birdbath for her bet birds and she wanted to build it herself once she learned how to make houses)

26. If you had 3 wishes, what would they be?
“Wings so I can fly”
“Cheese for my pet mice”
“Good luck building the bird bath”

27. What are you afraid of?
“Tornadoes”

28. What makes you happy?
“When I get to see my friends who moved away.”

29. What makes you sad?
“I forgot everything I was sad about”

30. How old is dad?
“29 or 30?”

31. How old is mom?
“31!”

32. What is your favorite food?
“Macaroni and Cheese”

33. What is your favorite TV show?
“SpongeBob”

34. Do you want to have kids when you grow up?
“I might have some… and I’ll take them to my job on Friday and have my husband take care of them”

35. How many kids do you want to have?
“As many as you have.” (Me: “two?”) “yeah”

Getting the House Ready for Sale

The past week or two I’ve been doing all the home maintenance items I’ve been putting off for years in order to get the house ready for sale.  So far I have:

  • Cut down all tree branches that were damaged by the ice storms.
  • Replaced a sink
  • Clean paint and grout off baseboards
  • Cut and bundled probably 100 unwanted baby trees
  • Removed some mold that was growing in one of the sinks

Cutting down the broken tree limbs was pretty fun.  My grandpa passed away last December and I ‘inherited’ a pole saw along with some of his other tools.  That made the job SO much easier.  Jeanette wasn’t thrilled about me using a “chainsaw on a stick” given my track record, but I still have all my limbs and managed to not get hit on the head with a branch.

Fixing the leaking sink was the part I dreaded the most.  I swore off ever doing plumbing work again a few years ago.  I never can seem to get everything hooked back up without it leaking.  After my dad pointed out I could just replace the sink cheaply instead of trying to repair it, I decided to give it one last shot.  Turned out to be a piece of cake.  Only took about an hour and $30 for a new sink and hoses, and it works great.

When we first moved in, our master bathroom had carpet.  After the first time the toilet overflowed, we decided carpet was a REALLY bad idea and installed tile instead.  We also repainted the walls a few months later.  Being the first time for both, it didn’t dawn on us to tape off the baseboards before starting, so we ended up with quite a mess.  We figured we’d have to replace the baseboards to fix it, but we found a paint thinner and grout remover at Wal-Mart that did a pretty good job.  It took a LOT of scrubbing and didn’t get rid of everything, but it looks MUCH better than it did.  The camera flash makes it look worse than it really was/is.

Chopping down and bundling the baby trees has been the biggest project so far.  I spent about 15-20 hours working on it.  Much longer than I thought it would take.  It’s finally done now and the yard looks much better.  I put out 6 bundles of wood for the garbage men last week, fortunately they took them.  I have another 5 bundles sitting out there today.

There are still quite a few more projects to do..

A Nerd Walks Into a Bar…

Ok this is about a year old, but I have a somewhat funny story I never got to tell.  Around this time last year I went to the Affiliate Summit West in Las Vegas.  It’s basically an event for other self employed computer geeks like me to get together and pretend we have real jobs.  It was around the time I was selling one of my websites and several potential buyers were there that I needed to meet with.

In addition to the conference, a few of the sponsors were hosting some events.  One of the events I was looking forward to, was a party as the TAO night club at the Venetian hotel.  They had reserved the upstairs for people from the summit and had hired Blue Man Group to do a private show there. I’d never seen Blue Man Group, but wanted to so this sounded awesome!

The party started at 7pm, so like all the other nerds I lined up promptly at 6:45. 🙂  I didn’t know this at the time, but apparently this is one of those fancy clubs where the bouncers decide who gets in and who doesn’t.  So there’s one line with all the hot people, and then, well, there’s us.

I finally get in around 7:15 and it’s kind of cool at first.  About what you’d expect, dim lights, loud music, free drinks, a beautiful view of the strip and balconies overlooking the pond at the Venetian and about 100 people standing around in clicks talking about pay per click, conversion rates, SEO and analytics.  You know, the typical club scene.  They also have the stage set up already it looks awesome, I’ll be able to watch the show from 15 feet away.

I had met a few people while at the conference, but I didn’t see any of them there.  I came alone and it just seemed a little to awkward to me to try to go find a group and jump into their conversation.  Plus I could barely hear over the music.  So I’m standing around like a wallflower waiting for Blue Man Group to show up so I can see them and leave.

After about 15 minutes of this, I’m feeling real uncomfortable and think to myself.  “If I had a drink to hold I’d look like I was just chillin’ here instead of standing around.”  Now I really don’t drink much and hate the taste of beer so this left me not really knowing what to order.  I heard someone else order a rum and coke, which I’ve tried before, so I got that.

I hadn’t had anything to drink since leaving the conference about 3 hours earlier so I drank that down pretty quick.  Thankfully it was more Coke than Rum.  That put me back where I started though.  I couldn’t order the same thing again, but I needed something to hold.  I was thinking “I don’t want to order something girly.  Oh man, what do I do!?”  Just then I remembered I had an iPhone! 🙂

I pull it out and spend about 15 minutes Googling “manly drinks” which really ended up being no help at all because I had virtually no reception.  Just then I remembered, Martini!  I mean James Bond drinks those, they’ve gotta be manly right?  I walked up to the bar with confidence.  “I’ll have a martini!”.  That confidence quickly went away when I was hit with the response “What kind?”.  I stood there with a blank stare like Napoleon Dynamite for about 5 seconds before he finally asked me “Gin or Vodka”.  Phew!  Multiple choice.  “Vodka!” I said with confidence once again.  “Clean or dirty?”  I panic again.  I don’t even want to know what goes into a dirty martini!  “CLEAN!!” I said.  Final question, “Do you want olive juice in it”.  I love olives so I say “Sure!”.  (I just now looked it up and found out that’s what makes it dirty, so now I feel even more stupid.)

Now I don’t know how martinis are normally made, but he pulls out a bottle of Absolute Vodka and fills the cup 75% of the way with it, then fills the remaining 25% with olive juice.  I took the first sip of it and it was extremely nasty.  I’m guessing he made it “special” just for me after our ordeal, but if that’s the way they’re normally made, James Bond is a sicko!  But now I’m stuck with this thing.  I hold it for about a half an hour and slowly take sips from it as much as I can stomach.  By this time it’s about 8:30 and I’m beginning to wonder when Blue Man Group is going to show up.  I pull out the paper and it says the party is from 7:00pm to ???. Great!  They may not show up until midnight.  A slot opens up on the balcony so I go out there for another 30 minutes and finish the drink while waiting.  Blue Man still isn’t there and I’m not feeling so great after finishing that drink so I decide to give up and leave.  I left the drink on the balcony so I wouldn’t have to face the bartender again.

I called Jeanette to tell her how lame it was and end up talking to her on the phone for the next 2 hours while walking around the Vegas strip in a half-drunken stuper.  Around 11pm I finally finish walking the strip, am worn out and starving because I never ate dinner.  I was under the impression there would be food at the club.  I’m ready to go to bed, but I’m at Luxor and I’m staying at Ceasers which is surprisingly far away dispite the fact it looks close.  I grab a midnight pizza from the Pizza Hut at Excallibur (also a bad idea) and walk back to the hotel and finally go to bed around 1:30 am.  I have to get up at 5am to make it to the airport in time to leave.  It wasn’t a good night.  I decided not to go back this year.

House Progress

Our house is coming along nicely.  We’re about at the half way point now.  It has been framed, shingled and all the gas water and electric lines have been run.  We’re waiting for inspections now before putting up the bricks and sheetrock.  We should be on schedule to have it finished right around the time school is letting out.   Here are some photos.

New Blog

We decide to ditch the old blog with the videos that creeped everyone out and put up a standard WordPress blog instead (I’m being lazy).  We’ll eventually get the old posts moved over..

Doing Our Homework

Just when you think you’ve got everything in place, it seems that there are a ton of items you missed…  At least that’s how it feels when we’ve been working on an ongoing project for a while.  It’s okay, though.  We’re making good progress.  We’ve picked out a lot of the materials for our next home; it’s just a matter of making sure that we can get everything that we want, without causing the price to skyrocket…  Jeremy & I have been able to come to good decisions, easily & smoothly, because we tend to like the same look of certain things & we agree on the things that we feel are necessary & the ones that can be left out, or that we can compromise on.  It’s just strange to us how the homebuilder we chose uses different vendors for almost every item that we have to pick out.  We can understand the appliance & lighting vendors being separate from the rest.  But, for most of the other materials, why not use someone who offers them all…?  But, seriously, it’s fun deciding on different elements.  We’re just amazed at how quickly time passes when we’re doing it!  But, we’re getting there.  Wish us luck on making “final” decisions!

Growing Pains

Alyssa is just such a silly, happy little girl!  It’s hard to get on to her when she does something she shouldn’t, but she’s beginning to learn more & more what those things are, and for the most part, how to listen to her Mommy & Daddy, when we tell her, “no”.  She just keeps picking up different expressions & it’s fun to watch her personality develop.  Recently, Jeremy & I both were awakened to a habit that we share, viewing it through Aly’s eyes, anyway.  She has begun to grunt when she picks things up, even if they are not heavy at all!  We realized that she started this the other day, after one of us leaned over to get something that was just out of reach.  I don’t remember if it was Jeremy or I, but naturally, you tend to say, “Ugh”, or something of the sort, when doing that.  I know I typically make some kind of grunt-like noise when I lift something heavy, so I imagine she’s seen/heard me do this recently, as well.  In any case, it’s just so cute & funny to hear out of her little mouth, especially when all she’s picking up is a plastic toy that will fit in only one of her hands!